Wide awake at 4am this morning in front of a crackling fire being introspective. As I process the culture shock re-entry, I couldn't help thinking about my girls. All three of them now.
As an American parent in a land of opportunity, I am responsible to help in "shaving the learning curve" for my girls. Sharon in Uganda at eight years old is only just now starting a rudimentary education. She had lunch at a restaurant for the first time in her life last Wednesday with us and has not traveled outside a one mile radius of her home. She does not have a father figure at home and her mother's income is around $25. per month.
My biological girls, on the the other hand, began reading at four years of age, have dined at the finest restaurants in the world and have circumnavigated the world before the age of 25. They have "somewhat functional" parents who have been married 29 years and provide the stability of a nuclear family with an income that ranks in the top 1% in the world.
My responsibility then is not only to sponsor Sharon and nine other young people in Kyrgyzstan, but also to "shave the learning curve" off my children and others so that they may create culture by living out their calling.
Our children have been given extraordinary opportunity and ability to be dreamers of the day. As Os Guiness says, to "be who they are". As parents, part of our "being who WE are" is to guide our children to understand the practical implications of stewardship and that our bountiful gifts are "ours for others".
"All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake up to find it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible."
-T.E. Lawrence (of Arabia)
BTW: Happy Birthday today, Lauren. You are truly a Dreamer of the Day.